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This site is to commemorate the purging of Sara out of my life. For almost two years I was in a relationship with a completely self-centered, controlling, lying, cheating, shallow, and conscience-less girl named Sara. At first I was unaware of these character flaws, and fell totally in love. When I saw her true colors I instead of admitting defeat, decided that if I was the perfect boyfriend that she would decide to reform her evil ways and treat me with the same love and respect I treated her. She took this opportunity to walk all over me, taking me for a fool. She cheated, lied and expected me to be cool with it. I was her fall back. When the others were used, abused and kicked to the curb I was there, in her mind totally oblivious to her ways. I realized she would never change and I had enough of being though a fool by my friends, family and even myself. I had to give up, or I would be a complete fool. No one deserved to be treated that way, so I told her exactly how I felt many times until she finally realized I wasn't a spine-less boy toy like the rest, I was serious.

This was the final act of saying good-bye and letting go to someone whom I had loved so much but didn't deserve it. Now I am free, and I have begun to rebuild my trust in love and women. There is hope, and there are to many women out there to put up with someone like Sara. Avoid them at all costs, and if you are in the middle of it, run while you still can. It is not worth a life of sorrow. I would like to dedicate this first to John, who was there to console, support, and pick on threw the whole thing, secondly to Josh who went threw a Sara experience and feels my pain. I should have listened to your warning. To Ben, who supported me, felt for me, and when it was all over, encouraged me without saying "I told you so.", and to all those who were ever screwed over by a Sara, or someone just like a Sara. You are not alone. I feel you pain.
Peace out.
Jason